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Table of Contents
Written by Ralph E. Bass
Saturday, 27 September 2008 17:41
Contents
Preface
Introduction
Chapter One: Christian Problem Solving is for Christians
CANDIDATES FOR CHRISTIAN COUNSELING
HOMEWORK
Chapter Two: How to Solve a Problem God's Way - Not Yours
PROBLEM SOLVING FROM GOD’S WORD
To Solve A Problem, You Must Define It Scripturally
Factors That Make Problem Solving Easier
Do Not Overcome Evil with Evil
Be Fair
Don’t Make Mountains out of Molehills
Let Love Cover a Multitude of Sins
Blame Shifting Insures Failure
Communicate Scripturally in Problem Solving
Anger and Problem Solving Do Not Mix
The Problem of Different Opinions
What About the Law?
Don’t Use “Peace” as a Substitute for Making the Hard Decisions That Bring Solution
There is a Biblical Agenda for Every Problem
Go and reprove him in private.
Take one or two more with you.
Tell it to the church.
And if he refuses to listen even to the church
God Does Not Want Every Problem Solved
HOMEWORK
Chapter Three: How to Talk to Your Mate
A STUDY IN BIBLICAL COMMUNICATION
Failures In Communication
Speaking The Truth In Love
Speak
The Truth
In Love
What Else Is Required?
How To Say It
Forgiveness
Get The Facts
Believe (Trust)
Don't Judge Motives
Don't Expect Mind Reading
Don’t Use Emotion as a Substitute for Logic
Avoid "Many Words"
Watch Your “Body Language”
The Problem
Grieving the Holy Spirit
Unwholesome Word
Bitterness
Wrath
Anger
Clamor
Slander
Malice
The Solution
How Do I Do It?
Edification
Be Kind
Tenderhearted
Forgiving
HOMEWORK
Chapter Four: How to Forgive When Terribly Wronged
A PRACTICAL EXPOSITION OF LUKE 17:3-10 AND MATTHEW 18:23-35
I Don’t Want To Forgive!
God Commands You to Rebuke
The Love of A Fight
There Are Three Major Reasons Why You Refuse To Forgive
I’ll Forgive When He Proves He’s Sincere
I’ll Need More Faith to Pull That Off
It’s Simply Too Hard, I Can’t Do It!
Just How Much Have You Been Forgiven?
But He Didn’t Ask For Forgiveness
But I Can’t Stop Thinking About It
I will not bring this up against you, and to you, ever again.
I will not bring this up against you, and to another person, ever again.
I will not bring this up against you, and to myself, ever again.
Out Of the Heavenlies and Into the Trenches
Philippians 4:8 Think List
HOMEWORK
Chapter Five: How to Cure Emotions in Turmoil
INSIGHTS FROM JOHN 12:27-28A AND JOHN 14:1-4 AND JOHN 14:25-27
Emotions in Turmoil
I Need Definitions!
Reality
Desires
“I’ve Been Hurt”
“I Need To Heal”
Faith Determines What You Choose To Think About
My Son Is Scheduled To Die
Make Me Feel Better
The Disciples Were Troubled As Well
What Does This Mean T
o You?
How To Keep Your Emotions In Turmoil
The Result?
HOMEWORK
Chapter Six: How to Heal Hurt Feelings
WITH REFERENCE TO I PETER 4:8 AND I CORINTHIANS 13:4-7
He Hurt My Feelings
So What Are ‘Hurt Feelings’ Anyway?
What Is The Solution To Hurt Feelings?
Love
This Is How It Works
But I Have Needs
I See “The What”, But Where’s “The How”?
HOMEWORK
Chapter Seven: How to Deal with Depression
TAMING THE BEAST WITHIN
Introduction
Origins
Depression Is A Secondary Response
Anger and Depression
Anger, Greed, and Depression
Conflicts, Pleasures, Lusts, Murder, Envy, Fights, Quarrels, and Depression
Anxiety, The Problems Others Experience and Depression
Fear, Discouragement and Depression
Grief, Death and Depression
God and Depression
God comforts the Depressed
Salvation and Depression
Summary
Stay On These Drugs Or Go Back Into The Mental Hospital
A Practical Assignment
HOMEWORK
Chapter Eight: How to Suffer for Doing Good
A PRACTICAL EXPOSITION OF I PETER 2:13-3:7
Suffer?
Submission
Rulers
Masters
Wives
Husbands
What's The
Next Step?
Are There Limits To Submission?
HOMEWORK
Chapter Nine: How to Change
A STUDY IN EPHESIANS 4:17-32
Does the Bible Really Work?
Common Themes
Must You Change?
How Did You Get This Way?
Not the Way of Christ
Putting Off Adam, Putting On Christ
Illustrations of God’s Method of Change
The Problem of Lying
The Problem of Anger
The Problem of Theft
The Problem of the Mouth
The Problem of Bitterness
How Does a Person Change?
Intensity
HOMEWORK
Conclusion
Reasons Church Members Will Not Go To Their Pastor for Counseling
Reasons Why Pastors Do Not Counsel
Appendix A
Examine Yourselves
Appendix B
Sleep
Appendix C
Brain-Disabling Treatments in Psychiatry: Drugs, Electroshock, and the Role of the FDA
Principles of Brain-Disabling Treatment
Conclusion
Appendix D
ADD: Does It Really Exist?
The Rating Game
A Brave New World of Soulless Tests
In Search of a Deficit
A Model of Machines and Disease
In Search of the ADD Brain
The Stigma of ADD
Appendix E
Training Opportunities for the
Biblical Counselor
Appendix F
Books of Value on Problem Solving
Subject Index
Scripture Index
The Author
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